Monday, December 22, 2008

Ellsworth's First Snow and a party

Our next door neighbor's house - the reason for the New Year's party.




We go to our families in Aspen on Christmas Day, so we came back up to Sharon to see the cats, the first big snow, and water Kurt's orchids.
We don't have a tree this year, so I'm cheating and showing our tree last year in Lakeville. That entry demanded a big tree. But the snow is deep and it's really cold, so we caught up on decorating a bit here and there. I hadn't really planned on doing anything but I am in the process of decking our mantels with some pine rope and tying some bows around some old silver and rock crystal candlesticks that I got from Asprey when I could afford such things. But I have never regretted buying good things when I could. As Decorator Josie McCarthy http://www.josiemccarthy.com/, a great believer in buying the best always says, "If you buy the best, you only cry once". A loose and very apt paraphrase of a Chinese expression.




So the house looks hopefully inviting on our dark little lane. My neighbors and their new baby are across the street, and Karen, who lives in a conversion of the old 1812 Meeting House is here as well. So it's rather snug and not really as lonely as it could be. And John Allen, our next door neighbor was up for 30 minutes checking his house. He and his wife Susan live in the city most of the year. Susan and I spent a lot of time chatting over our garden fence this past Spring and Summer. There house is really cunning and has a great sunken garden paved in old brick. I covet Susan's sunken garden



Well, we somehow decided to have a New Year's Eve party. It started with John and I just talking about having a drink as they'll be up here, and we come back the 30Th. Suffice to say, I am up to about 30 people thus far, but most won't come. It's a little remote to pop in for a quick drink, but some people probably will do as we are just off the road between Sharon and Kent, which I am sure will be "jumping" New Year's Eve. And the last time I thought very few people would show was my friend Leslie's birthday party, and I think we had about 50. So I sent e mail invites (not those evite things - just an e mail). I try not to be too "cute" with technology. I don't think an electronic invitation needs an imitation copperplate look or little bows or other decorative elements best left to actual paper. But a number of people are getting written ones, like Polly and Henry Mellen and Mimi and Mal McDougall. Polly is a legend in fashion and Mimi is a genius decorator who's house I lived in in Lakeville. More importantly, they are 2 women who combine genius original style with kindness and grace.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Dust Ruffle




In the New York apartment, we had no dust ruffle on the bed. I've never liked bedskirts, but Mimi my decorator, assured me that she could make one that wasn't too girly, and that wouldn't look like it came out of a  "bed in a box". Well after 6 months of waiting on the trim to come from Old World Weavers, it's finally done. I am a convert. The fabric is a truly inexpensive Hinson union cloth ($6 a yard), like felt, and the combination of the rough fabric with the frankly fancy trim, just tickles me. I wish I could take credit, but it goes to Mimi. Am I the first decorating editor to realize that hiring a decorator makes sense? It's actually been cheaper than if I'd done it myself.

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Ice on the mountain



When I looked out the window at dusk I saw that the wetlands at the foot of our garden were all golden. But the frozen trees at the top of "our" mountain are really incredible. Words fail me for a change. Thank God Kurt got a picture. It's scenes like this that keep me out in the country. And when I get too rhapsodic about "country life", it usually means it's time for me to run down to the city for a few days and get a little not-so-Walden-pondish. And when I start appreciating ice on the mountain, a trip to Bergdorf-Goodman is not far behind.

Winter in Litchfield County





I moved to Connecticut last year with my partner Kurt, 2 cats named six and seven and a pug named Truman. We live in a cozy white18Th century house on a quiet country lane in Sharon. I've always been an urban man, but the pleasures of a rural existence seem to suit me more. Kurt works in Manhattan, so I spend time in town as well. This was the house right before Thanksgiving. The cold has come and our trees are now bare, creating a more austere beauty.


How a southern city boy made it through a Yankee country winter provided abundant material for a blog. My editor, Rebecca Sherman, strongly suggested I do this, I think more as a way for her to monitor my mental health than anything else . Her blog is up and running, Dallas Houses Gardens People (http://www.decordallas.com/), and it's nifty.